Lapland, Finland

 
11/21/17 3am Lapland, Finland (personal journal entry)It feels like I'm in Narnia here, surrounded by a white wonderland of snow covered trees and northern lights up above. Last night I stood naked by a fireplace in a glass igloo and my boyfriend of…

11/21/17 Lapland, Finland

There is something about Finland that makes you slow down.

Maybe it is the snow covered forests, the quiet, or the feeling of being completely surrounded by nature. We stayed in a little cabin tucked into the trees, waking up to a landscape covered in snow and spending our days outside in the cold.

We went dog sledding through the forest, flying through the snow behind a team of energetic, beautiful dogs. It was exhilarating and completely magical. Another day, we went reindeer sledding, moving quietly through the snow and taking in the beauty of the landscape around us. Each experience felt completely different, but both gave us a chance to experience Finland in such a wild and elemental way.

And then there was the sauna.

The Finnish way of living with nature feels like a beautiful expression of the same idea.

You sweat. You rinse. You breathe. You step outside into the cold. You return to the warmth.

You let the body do what it already knows how to do.

And perhaps that is what makes the Finnish sauna so powerful as a ritual. It is not about adding more. It is about creating the space to restore.

I think skincare can offer that same kind of pause.

A warm cloth over the face. A nourishing oil pressed into the skin. The scent of herbs and botanicals. Your hands moving slowly across your face instead of rushing through another step in your day.

Not another thing to fix.

A moment to come back to yourself.

Finland reminds us that beauty can be found in the quiet things. In the forest. In the steam. In the changing seasons. In caring for the body with intention.

And sometimes, in simply slowing down enough to feel it.

I stepped out of the shower and found him sitting at the edge of the bed looking at the fire. I walked over to him and he stood up to hug me. He was shaking as he told me how much he loved me and how he couldn't imagine his life without me. He then …
My eyes widened and I almost put it on myself but I remained calm, said yes, then he put it on my finger. “I love you,” I said smiling, “I love that I'm naked right now," we both laughed.
We then sat down and looked into each other's eyes and cried. We don't have it figured out, this is foreign territory. We are just two souls who want to take off all our armor. We want to be loved, cherished, respected and taken care of. We want to …
I looked at him and I saw my whole life, before him and with him. I saw our completely open and free future that we get to create together.
As I gazed at my diamond, round like the moon, held in a gold crown, I saw my mom, purple flowers, my Nani naming me princess. I saw Queen Kylie written on a sand castle and the man of my dreams watching me smile.
He said I'm his queen and that's how I feel in this moment. It’s just me and him in the middle of know where, his heart and my heart doing our best.
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